Aug 28


Awesome picture, right? I love Creative Commons and their ability to give me awesome pictures for my posts.

I’ve spent the last hour updating some things, tweaking some code, installing some plug-ins and scripts, and just in general making myself a happy, happy webmistress. I have plans! PLANS! I have desires. There are things I want to do with my newfound “open and honest” website. No more hiding behind a moniker or friend-locked posts. Oh, that doesn’t mean I will go off the deep end. It just means that I am forcing myself to be willing to share pieces of me that I usually did not share.

Do you hide behind internet anonymity? Why?

One of the reasons I used to do so was because of my ability to pick up stalkers online. It’s not like I set out to gather them. But when they started breaching my very carefully separated circles, because they figured out how to find me, I quickly renamed myself and reinvented the way I presented myself online. I never changed my personality but I made it near impossible to invade the territories I had created for my various ongoings online. Swaps had one set of information, role-playing games had another, message boards had still another form of identity.

I still have a separation between role-play and everything else. I prefer the anonymity because I still have not quite opened myself up to share my creative writing in any form. Slowly, carefully, I am trying to bring in a few grayed areas; if a couple friends join a game I am in, which is in desperate need of new blood, it will mark a milestone for me. Message board meets RPG. Real-life, “person I see every day” friend meets my creative writing in an aspect that most have never seen.

We shall see what happens.

In the meantime, I am quite content with getting my things set up in preparation for my new projects. What are they? They are secrets for now! I cannot show you an unfinished product! That is like showing off my new outfit and walking out stark naked. I bet you’d like that. Wouldn’t you. Perv.

3 Replies to "creative social circles and new projects"

Cole wrote on
Aug 30, 2010   •   05:30 pm

I am pretty open about everything on the internet. However, I do have a sort of anonymous personality that I try to protect.

Midnight wrote on
Aug 30, 2010   •   08:52 pm

hmm i’m pretty much the opposite, I always think someone has gotten better when they start to hide their information and use online monikers. might be because I have always seen so many people be “open” use the excuse everyone else is doing it.. get into a fight with someone then uh oh and having to separate things and it becomes a large mess. not including people you never want to see your information orw hat is on your mind, some how finding it lol

Midnight wrote on
Aug 30, 2010   •   10:55 pm

@Angel I am saying what I have seen from online and irl friends. In many of these the other person which they got into a fight with use information they have learn/seen when they were friends to continue to injure the person and or stalk them and ruin things that they like. There are also those who are social butterflies and giving information about themselves making lots of acquaintances is fine and dandy but also have a hard time understanding those who wish to keep to themselves into a small cluster of friends. In my own opinion I suggest thinking carefully about what you want to do and if this sudden response is to something else in your life that you want to separate yourself from, or if it really a change you want to do. what exactly brought it about and if it is something you think you really want to continue


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